Our sincere condolences and prayers are with you Joy and Wendy at this difficult time. Sometimes we have questions that we will never find the answer and wonder why some stuff happens to us. This can be very difficult but with time, one finds peace in God who is all knowing. May the Lord our peace and comforter be with you and entire family at this difficult moment. May He hide you and keep you. Psalms 91. Shalom Shalom, Rev Caroline and family.